It’s the age old question – does she like me? I have to tell you that there is so much damaging brainwashing in the major media, movie studios, sitcoms, blogs, etc that gives real men real bad information. You know what I see most? The idea that you have to pursue, pursue, pursue and then pursue some more. You want a girl that’s into you from the jump – no doubts and no funny feeling in your gut and NO pursuit. Remember guys, when you don’t start with a strong foundation, you will sink FAST.

I’d like to make a sequel to those movies. Here would be MY storyline: We’ll start out by playing the ending of the last movie – complete with him running through the rain saying something so wimpy that any guy in the world would feel his lunch start to bubble to the surface and we’ll see her cry and profess her undying love (the same woman that said she wanted him arrested/hated him/desired he jump in the lake – just an hour ago in the movie). She FINALLY realized he was THE ONE

You see, what happens in the situation when you chase, chase, chase is that sometimes the worst thing happens – you catch her. Sorry, you’ll have to put up with the sappy music once again as we begin my storyline – and then we roll to: She throws little digs at him like “Did you see what is up to these days? Weren’t you two even at the firm?” You know what I see most? The idea that you have to pursue, pursue, pursue and then pursue some more.

All you will get in these situations, is to be the “settled for” guy – she didn’t really like you but she settled for you. It was “better than being alone and at least he’s got a good job” will be what she tells her girlfriends. Women HELP YOU when they LIKE YOU – that phrase alone can save you hundreds, if not thousands of dollars and years, if not decades of agony and pain because YOU chose to be with a woman that wasn’t into you at all. It’s the age old question – does she like me?